Help! My best friend is a lesbian.?

12 Responses to Help! My best friend is a lesbian.?

1. seraphina75 | February 28, 2010 at 3:48 am |

   If she’s your friend, it shouldn’t matter. If she’s attracted to you and you aren’t attracted to her, a simple “thanks, but no” generally does the trick. This girl was your best friend before you found out she was gay, why should that change now?

   This happened to a girl I went to college with. THe exact thing. He now dances at a gay bar in Dallas.

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2. wasabi_milkshake | February 28, 2010 at 5:49 am |

   tell her that u have a boyfriend and … uhm… just do the normal break-up routine.

   This happened to a girl I went to college with. THe exact thing. He now dances at a gay bar in Dallas.

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3. sexy*kitty | February 28, 2010 at 7:49 am |

   she is ur friend…i know that iw ould be a little freak out but just be there to support her that is what she needs the most

   This happened to a girl I went to college with. THe exact thing. He now dances at a gay bar in Dallas.

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4. Martha | February 28, 2010 at 9:53 am |

   r u crazy?just leave her

   This happened to a girl I went to college with. THe exact thing. He now dances at a gay bar in Dallas.

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5. warehaus | February 28, 2010 at 11:55 am |

   If she is your friend she should respect that you do not want to have a physical relationship with her. If she is just coming out, she may be a little unsure or scared and may be looking for your support as her friend.

   If you can support her as a friend, do so. She’ll need someone to talk to, but, again, you do not have to do anything that makes you uncomfortable, and she should respect that.

   This happened to a girl I went to college with. THe exact thing. He now dances at a gay bar in Dallas.

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6. Radiocrow | February 28, 2010 at 2:48 pm |

   How old are you? Just because you found out your best friend is a lesbian doesn’t mean she has cooties or she turned into an alien. She’s still your best friend, don’t freak out about nothing, and don’t treat her any different.

   If she does have a crush on you and starts making moves then tell her that you’re not interested and it makes you uncomfortable. Homosexuals DO and CAN have straight friends of the same gender, just like I’m sure you have guy friends you don’t find attractive or like in that way.

   This happened to a girl I went to college with. THe exact thing. He now dances at a gay bar in Dallas.

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7. moonlight1811 | February 28, 2010 at 5:48 pm |

   It really shouldn’t matter friendship wise. If she’s really your friend then she will respect the decision about you not wanting to have any kind of relationship with her…and well, if she doesn’t respect that, then I would say it’s time to find new friends…

   Friends should respect each other and the decisions they make.

   This happened to a girl I went to college with. THe exact thing. He now dances at a gay bar in Dallas.

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8. legio_xxx_30th | February 28, 2010 at 7:48 pm |

   And this is a problem because….
   If she is attracted to you in a sexual way and you are not feeling the same, then there could be a problem. if you both agree that you want to be friends and not lovers then you don’t have a problem. My best friend was Gay too. he dated men, and I dated women. We even went out on dates together. Our friendship was something pure, like any hetro friendship. I hope she remains your friend.

   This happened to a girl I went to college with. THe exact thing. He now dances at a gay bar in Dallas.

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9. xxmiss_caramel_queenxx | February 28, 2010 at 10:56 pm |

   If she just wants to be friends let her! I guess she’s your bestfriend and she’d respect your feelings you have with your bf already, relax and take it easy, if things get out of hand let her know where to get off!

   This happened to a girl I went to college with. THe exact thing. He now dances at a gay bar in Dallas.

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10. djay | March 1, 2010 at 12:51 am |

    so… if she is your “friend”– let her know where you stand—-and be yourself. she shouldn’t pressure you, but friends are friends…….

    This happened to a girl I went to college with. THe exact thing. He now dances at a gay bar in Dallas.

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11. zangoosa | March 1, 2010 at 2:58 am |

    you were bestfriends before you found out so why should it
    be any different now that you know. you’ll lose her as a bestfriend if you treat her different.

    This happened to a girl I went to college with. THe exact thing. He now dances at a gay bar in Dallas.

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12. chelsea_sherry_williams | March 1, 2010 at 5:48 am |

    its tru since she was gay before u found out why should it change the way u girls value your friendship?

    This happened to a girl I went to college with. THe exact thing. He now dances at a gay bar in Dallas.

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