how to break the news?


im bisexual…and i have actually had more lesbian relationships than straight. the problem is that my brother and father are extreamly religious, and are disgusted with gays and lesbians. i dont think i have the bravery to tell my dad but i really want to tell my brother, because we are really close. how do i tell him?
this is one thing he would not get over


10 Responses to how to break the news?

  1. free2pluckkk

    just tell him dear u need 2 and he’ll get over it.

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  2. msyolandaandmrmalcolm

    Wait until you get grown and move out of the house.

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  3. conundrum_dragon

    Ask him dosent the bible teach forgiveness?
    Then break it to him.
    Im afrade thought if he is as religous as you describe and as set agingst gays and lesbians that it may ruin your relashoionship.

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  4. This person is full of crap…Just read the history of questions and answers

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  5. casperpitbull

    DID YOU NOW THATS THAT IS NOT PLEASING TO GOD.. IF YOU KNOW THAT WOULD HURT THEM WHY. YOU NEVER HURT THE ONE YOU SAY YOU LOVE. BUT REMBER ONE THING THEY WOULD RATHER HEAR IT FROM YOU THEN OTHERS. JUST REMBEMER ONE THING YOU WILL HURT THEM BUT THEY WILL NOT STOP LOVING YOU

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  6. If he will never get over it then why tell him?

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  7. I have a family member that was in your situation. She was scared to tell me but when she did she felt better. Just because I don’t understand it does not make me love her any less. I am just glad that she trusted in my love for her enough to confide in me. Her personal preferences are just that hers. If you love someone unless they kill someone or something you don’t judge the choices they make. It is her life and if she is happy that is all that matters.

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  8. i wouldnt worry about that, i mean it was just 2 days ago that you were 18 almost 19, hadn’t had a period yet, thinking about having sex with your boyfriend, and didnt know where to go for birthcontrol.

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  9. First question, how old are you? If you are over 18 and living at home prepare to move out.
    Second question, are you 100% sure of your sexuality, this isn’t a check out my options phase, right? If you are confident and comfortable with yourself, then I would say tell them, seperatly maybe. Go to your brother first, he may surprise you and give support when you face your father. He may not, but you shouldn’t be expected to hide the rest of your life.
    You need to realize, from your question, you may lose both of them. Are you ready for that? It’s better to tell them now then for them to find out from someone else.
    I wish you luck!

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  10. mysterywords123

    just tell them they have to get over that ur related to them.

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