My partner and I are lesbians and we have been together for 2 years. She does not seem to me like me sexual wise. I would like to make love more often and she only likes to make love one or two times a month. This is a problem for me because I crave affection and love. I thought she might just want a man, or me to be sexier but she just says that is how she is. What should I do?
She has gained some weight so that might be a factor.
If it is how it is it is how it is. Maybe she is tired of it and wants to do what is absolutely natural and go for a man. If she does two thumbs up . If you truly care about her, you will let her do her own thing. She may be realizing something and is afraid to tell you
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who is to say that being with a man is natural? However he recent wieght gain may be the problem or her sex drive may be that low talk it over with her the reason will come out eventually!!!
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well,isay everyone is different and maybe her sexual drive is just not as high as yours or maybe she is going through depression or stress and sex is the last thing on her mind at the moment.the most you could do is suppourt her and love and understand her.try to seduce her and make her feel special,never force her.good luck to you.
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maybe she needs you to help her open up.
maybe theres other sexual acts shell like to partake in.
if its a man she wants well im sure theres a way you can be that fantasy for her yet still remain yourself.
i say have some fun with this.
it may make her see you differently and positively thus itll advance and spark your relationship in all respects.
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it may be how she is. some people dont get to sexually arroused to much. but then again maybe she wants someone or something else. im bi. and i know that if i had a female in my life we would be getting physical more than twice a month. if you ever wanna talk email me at crazed_fem19@yahoo.com
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My girlfriend is the same way…give her space,make her want it…and let her come to you.
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