My best friend and I have been together for almost 10 years. I started having deep feelings for her about a year ago. There is one problem, shes 100% lesbian. She knows how I feel but she also says she loves me too except shes gay. Is there anything I can do? Or is she the one that got away?
Let her go. Set your sights on women that are attainable, you deserve no less.
She has a boyfriend she maybe bi sexual but, not a lesbian
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Get a sex change operation. That’ll improve your chances.
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You can’t fault her for it. I have the same (kinda) ordeal. My friend of 12yrs (in March) is my soulmate but after being cool so long he’s worried we’ll compromise the relationship we know and love currently. Love stinks. Best bet is to keep it moving, aka look else where
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why .do you want her so badily that you would ruin your life and her life also ? or worse yet …do you want to ruin this young ladies life just to make yourself temporarly happy?????????
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do NOT get a sex change, that is just weird and against nature! well, when someone is like that, there isn’t a lot you can do. you might try talking her into maybe just spending time with you, going on a few dates and see if you can’t be the one to change her mind. if she’s stubborn enough not to have feelings for someone who’s willing to care that much and do whatever he can to have that chance, well, then that’s her loss. i honestly have to compliment you, most guys would just give up (i’ve even had friends turn bi because of this problem :/ ) if she won’t change her ways then there is another woman out there whom you are meant and deserve to be with.
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if you love her why do you need her to be “mine”.. She already is yours.. There’s no law that says you can’t love her deeply no matter what.. That is true love my friend.. Would having her in the sexual context change anything?.. Could you simply love her enough to let her go?..perhaps you could lover her enough to live with her or would you not be able to love her enough to leave her be as she is.. If you love something or someone so much you should never want to change them. If my some misfortune you were successful, you might change what you love so much into something else and loose her forever.. perhaps you should just continue loving her no matter what.. There is one other option.. If you had a bisexual girlfriend perhaps you could create a polyamorus family that way.. But I think you should just love her for what she is.. your best friend
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She can’t be “yours” because she is not physically attracted to men…you really need to get that one, because it’s nothing you did or did not do that made it impossible for you two to be romantically paired…it’s not personal, she likes apples and you’re a peach… but you might want to really look at what it is about her that you admire so much and seek out women who share those traits or qualities… Just because SHE can’t be Miss Right does not mean she can’t be a great deal of help in figuring out who IS Miss Right.
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let her go because she is alwayz going to love woman not men just try to get away from her n start dating other woman
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