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JUST WALK IN
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You just walk right in and sit down like any other bar. You already know that women will hit on you, so what are you scared of.
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if u feel uncomfortable then maybe u should wait.
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walk in
pu ton efoot infront of the other and repeat
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walk in and go right to the bar and order a drink.
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just hold ur head high go buy a drink and go hard with evrything else, if anyelse can go with u to support that would make it better aswell
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Just walk in. Go up to the bar and order a drink and scope the place out, find a hot chick and offer to buy her a drink bada bing your golden.
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Ask a friend if they would go in with you. I doubt anyone in the bar is going to judge you, I’m sure you will make new friends and maybe more.
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Yes you should try it. You cant obviously be embarassed because everyone else is there for the same reason. Just go with an open mind. Just be careful which one you go to. Not all bar are the same. Check to see which one fits your personality and just try it out.
cherry23milly@yahoo.com
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If your a lesbian go for it.
cherry23milly@yahoo.com
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i think if you get up the courage and just walk in you’ll be fine, you know ur hot and you know some girl is gonna hit on you just be your self calm down and DO IT!
cherry23milly@yahoo.com
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You should always go to a bar with a friend or friends for several reasons. Support, safety, and a good time. If you really don’t have any friends to go with, and you’re gonna brave it, just go, observe, and hang out. Don’t be bold and go home with anyone. Play it smart. And good luck!
cherry23milly@yahoo.com
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It’s scary for me to walk into any bar alone. Bars are not great places for long term romance, but I am sure people will hit on you and you will meet lesbians, if that is what you want. But if you are scared examine why in your heart.
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If you have someone you know that is also a lesbian or bi or at the very least accepting of your life – have them go with you so you don’t feel so out of place. Depending on where you live the bar may or may not be friendly. There is a bar in my town that I would never go into alone – the people know each other too well and aren’t friendly to unknowns.. a city over there is a great bar for people just coming out to hang out.. do a little research on the place.. find out about the atmosphere.. heck call the bar and ask one of the bartenders what its like in there for a new person.. they will let ya know what its like.. Good luck!
cherry23milly@yahoo.com
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What do you have to lose? At least you know you have something in common with the rest of the folks there, they all had to walk into one for the first time once too. Besides, I understand lesbians are a friendly crowd. If I were female I’d be one!
cherry23milly@yahoo.com
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please don’t. come to church. don’t get seduced by the devil. don’t get turned out.
cherry23milly@yahoo.com
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I find it scary to walk into ANY bar on my own, never mind going to a lesbian bar for the first time. My experience of gay/lesbian bars is that they are just like any other bar – smoky, loud, people having fun.
Is it a good way to meet people? If you’re looking for people who like to hang out in bars, sure. Myself, I prefer social clubs, church, and the internet as a way to meet women with whom I have interests in common. Then, I have a DATE to go to a lesbian bar with.
Good luck! Have fun!
cherry23milly@yahoo.com
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I am going to go against the trend here. Don’t go to the lesbian bar. Bars are not really a good place to meet people who will have things in common with you. You should find other ways to find someone you can have a relationship with. Leave the bar lesbians alone.
cherry23milly@yahoo.com
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Are you a lesbian, or do you feel curious? No offense.
Walk in, don’t make a fool of yourself,,,at least not initially,,,smiles.
By the way,,,They won’t attack you, straight of gay.
They are people, and even if their preferences differ from your or others, they deserve respect, honesty, and enjoy many aspects of life, no differently than you or I do.
The fact that they may have different preferences than you is partly a choice issue, and a freedom they should be able to enjoy and express.
I know this sounds so cliche,,, but some of my best friends have different orientations than I do, and they happen to be some of the most decent people I’ve ever known.
Enjoy,,, even the blue drinks,,,smiles.
Rev. Steven
Life,,, 3rd stool to the right.
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just walk in and do your job smile as thou you have the world by the tail my question why did you apply at lesbian bar? good luck
Life,,, 3rd stool to the right.
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Thats easy , just dont think of it as a “lesbian bar” just think of it as a bar with like minded people and you shouldnt have any problems. Stand up straight shoulders back, head up walk in with confidence and you will look like your where you are meant to be i promise .:D
Personal experience
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