I met this gay lady online, first we were just friends then we discovered there is actualy chemistry between us, we both found each other irrestable and we’ve made hot passionate love a few times, unfortunately her husband found out and it caused a lot of problem, she is determined to see me so we begin to sneak around and it just makes the sex even hotter..but..I know it will never work, I know I will never have her but unfortunately I have fallen in love with her, she wants to be with me so badly that she cries herself to sleep most nights…its a sad situation, how do I walk away from her without hurting her and hurting myself?
Yes she has kids her husband cheated on her and got another kid outside of the marriage, that’s when she started seeking comfort but she realized that she didnt want another man but a woman instead, she desperately wants to leave her husband but she fears him greatly as he threathens to have her disgraced because of her lesbian tendency, he also threathens to tell the kids and this subdues her even more than the other threats, he forces himself on her because she does not want sex with him anymore, all these are known facts and I have become more of a friend and a shoulder to cry on than actually just a lover. if i walk away now it’s hard because i’m in so deep but she is too weak and frightened of him to leave him plus she is extremely protective of her kids….plus she’s very dependent on me for comfort & support
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It’s just like that movie with piper perabo that just flopped in the box office.
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I roll my eyes at you. How can you be so damn blind? SHE DOESN’T LOVE YOU! If she did, she wouldn’t be with her husband anymore.
Just walk away and don’t look back. You can’t just not hurt anyone when you end something, it doens’t work that way.
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Be honest with her and tell her how you feel. Good luck!
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She’s never going to leave her Husband – Find a woman of your own and you’ll find true happiness.
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It’s not possible to walk away without hurt. However, you have to do it, because it’s the right thing to do. It may take a long time to get over, but that’s life… a good community church might help.
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I’ve been there. If she doesn’t leave her husband you’ll end up hurt.
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just do it…and hold no regret…cut off all contact and get real…you deserve better any way…someone who will love you and be totally ready for your love in it’s entirety
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This is an unfortunate situation. I’m sorry your going through this. But all in all…you probably should have thought of this before you started sleeping with a married woman. Do you like to be cheated on? Probably not. You are partaking in a delicate situation and now have to reap the consequences.
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get over her with another woman after all if she loved you that much she wouldn’t sneak around on her husband she would leave him
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slap the husband and F.U.C.K her 23 times!
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YOU CAN’T YOU JUST HAVE TO WALK AWAY AND ONLY TIME WILL HEALL IT … I HOPE SHE DOES NOT HAVE KIDS IF SO YOU HAVE TO THINK ABOUT THEM AND NOT YOU
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It might be hard for both of you but just do it Is there kids involved then yes leave her alone …if no kids then hhey tell her to get a divorce if she loves you too..Or is it lust
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Do you have to walk away? Is she bisexual? Should she be with her husband? If she should, you probably can’t walk away without hurting her and hurting yourself, but can you walk away? Only you can answer that. Good luck.
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She needs to end it with her husband or you. Don’t be fooled she is cheating you and her husband. Where is her commitment? You don’t need to walk away, you need to run. There is someone out there for you, Best of luck
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You’ve gotten yourself into a situation where you and others are going to be hurt. You need to walk away, and if she is really serious about wanting to be with you, she will divorce her husband and come back to you.
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okay thats nasty. you knew she was a married women and now you have convinced her that she is just like you. you should be ashamed. you need to try a man.
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You are already doing all of what you have said, and you are playing with your life. #1–Never deal with someones mate, find a single person, you never lay down with someone and someone not get up with some feelings, think about that the next time you get ready to jump into something. NO, I am not gay, but I have a cousin that is, and I have seen her act out in ways that I just do not get it–it is insane, that is like me going after a married man, I already know that I have nothing coming but sex and a few stolen moments–it depends on what you want to have in life, I want more than that.
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You won’t be able to do it without hurting her or yourself. This is going to hurt. It’s important that you know that. You are about to pull the bandaid off, expect pain. This being said, it’s even more important for you both (especially her) to understand why you are doing this so that the hurt does not turn into anger. If you haven’t told her that you love her, it will complicate things for her if you do. It wouldn’t surprise me if she left her husband anyway. You should wait for that to happen natuarlly and thenm when you see her again, tell her your feelings.
Telling her that you love her now could of course, encourage her to leave her husband, but it could get really ugly really quickly. Also, you said the sex and the passion were hottest when you two were stealing off and being covert. You should ask yourself how much longer that would last if you two were in a committed relationship, and if you could be happy together without the same level of sexual intensity.
I feel for you though. I remember what it’s like to hurt the way you do. I hope things work out for you.
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Wow, sounds like she doesn’t want to loose you or her husband, or she would have no problem leaving him. I am married and I’m trying to put myself in her shoes. She obviously is in love with you and didn’t expect for that to happen. You do need to just move on, because like you said you know you two will never be together. I’m sure she isn’t trying to hurt you, she just already has one commitment. I don’t know how you should walk away from her because that is never easy in any relationship. Maybe you should just tell her that it is the most responsible thing to do for you emotionally and for the fact that she is married to just end the relationship. I’m sorry for you two and I hope you find someone who can give all of themself to you!
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Honestly if she did love you she would have left her husband. But maybe she is scared to leave her husband and she is probably confused. Leave her alone and if it was meant to be she’ll be back in your arms. If not trust me you will get over it and learn that ther is more fishes in the sea. Ask yourself a question. Do you want the best for yourself? If yes then you will know what you have to do. No matter what, people come and go in your life. It’s how you deal with it.
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There is no way without pain if love is involved. If after some time apart, you two still feel as strong for each other as now, then you just go from there. Besides, if she’s gay, she should let her husband go. I’ve always hated situations like this, I wish you both luck.
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Well u have already started an intimate relationship with her and you knew then she was married. The only thing u can do is let her know u love her and u do want to be with her but if its never going to work for the 2 of u its time for u to move on. She could always leave her husband for a life with you. But thats something u need to talk with her about. There is never ever an easy way to end a relationship. No matter how its done someone will cry and someone will be hurt. Good luck to u
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