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My parents won’t accept that I’m gay…?
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9 Responses to My parents won’t accept that I’m gay…?
Live your life dont worry about what people think or say.
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In my own opinion I think that you should let your parents know that no mattr how they feel about your decision that you love them and that your not doing it to hurt them but you have made up your mind wether they accpet it or not. It’s not going to be easy living your life without their approvcal but if it’s what makes you happy then you should live your life to the fullest and what you feel is right for you.
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I’m sure this is really hard on you. Unfortunately there is no way to change how they feel. The best thing you can do is to live your life the best that you can and be happy. Continue to try to include them in your life even if they continue to decline. At least if you leave the door open and give them opportunities even if it takes years, they might change how they feel.
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I’m iffy on the kids situation- but in regards to your sexuality… you’ve got to be who you are. They don’t want to be homosexual- so why should you want to be heterosexual?
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they should get used to it.
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Although as a man I find it easier to accept two girls instead of two guys the parents are right on the Religious part of it.
Actually it boils down to do you want to go to hell for worldly lust?
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Sounds like you’ve selected the “Road” you want to travel. You also understand the price and hardships this “Road” will cost you; lost of a relationship with your family.
You can welcome your family into your life now and in the future. When you welcome them you must also accept their opinions about your life. If your parents are extremists, then by asking them to your wedding, it’s like asking them to robe a bank with you. As you want the freedom to go down your own road, please don’t drag your family down a road they don’t want to be on … make peace with the situation and live the best life you can live.
For all of historical records, man and women < in your case: women and women > separate from their parents to form a new family. It is wrong to stay a child forever. You’re now an adult with adult responsibilites and decisions . All parents need to let go and pray that they raised their children right. Your parents are probably beating themselves up unjustly over your decisions … but your decisions are your’s to own not theirs to own!!!
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its hard to accept that one of your kids are gay but they are right about the religon part…
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I know it’s hard, but try not to think too much about what they think. Just know that you are blessed to have somebody you love and who loves you back. Im sure you will be very happy. As for your family, when they see how happy you are, and what a great family you have,sooner or later they will admit they were wrong.
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