i have a lesbian partner, whom i really love.. we love everything in each other…she is affectionate, sweet and great in bed. but my family doesnt like lesbian. and there comes my close friend whom im starting to like..and my family liked him to but im not sure of this guy because he is so unpredictable though he said he like me nd love me… he even kissed me… but still i love her i dont know wat exactly should i do….HELP!
you have to chose between your great love and the lesser guy whom your family likes. families are important too, they are the reason who and where you are now
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Call Jerry Springer. NmD
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Take a step back?
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In my experience go with your heart. I was always worrying about my family liking my boyfriends and everything but then I sat down and thought about how much I actually see my family and I hardly ever saw them and I was with my boyfriend…now my husband…all the time. He was what made me happy not my family or my friends who didn’t like him. If this guy is unpredictable…why risk being hurt by someone like that when you can be with someone who does love you and you know that for sure without a doubt. Who cares what other people think of your sexuality. They don’t have to live out your life and they don’t have to be with the girl…so do what you want and mroe importantly what your heart wants.
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forget yor family, you have a short life, live it up then go to heaven (hopefully). If yor gonna be bi (or already) good for you. You schould be loved by yor family no matter what. if u like yor close friend, thats great do u “love” hiim, and do u “love” her. Or do u just like either of their moves? its yor choice, yor life, don’t be an iddiot. this affects your entire life. u only got 1!
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ITS YOR LIFE!FOLLO YOR FRIGGIN HEART! YOU KNOW H+WHO YOU WANT DEEEEEEP DOWN! memmber its not always about the moves.
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I think that you should follow your heart. I know it sounds cliche but you have to decide what will make you most happy because you have to live with the decision. You have an inner voice telling you what to do, listen to it and you will not be led astray. Just trust yourself.
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WELL, IF YOU ARE CURRENTLY LIVING WITH YOUR PARENTS, WHAT I WOULD ADVISE IS TO LET THEM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, MAYBE THEY ARE IN DENIAL OF YOUR SEXUAL PREFERENCE..IF YOU LIVE ON YOUR ON, THAN YOU NEED TO FOLLOW YOUR HEART, TRY TO HELP YOUR FAMILY UNDERSTAND LESBIANS..
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As I read your story, I can conclude that the one who you loved is your lesbian partner.
Try to talk openly to your family and ask them to accept the reality that you are a lesbian.
Since if they push you to love a man thier choice or not you will not happy in your whole life.
I’m sure if your family love you, soon or late they will understand your situation.
JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART, GOOD LUCK
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I think that the best advice in this case is to listen to your heart. it’s the only thing you can do. you trully love your gf you souldnt take into consideration being with the guy, because even tho you decide t odo so it can end the way everyone gets hurt, each of you guys.. good luck!
(you answered my Q about ‘hell’.. if you feel like having a talk with me or something, please contact me? I cannot. so send me email if you’re willing to have a talk. take care!)
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