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well first, you’d better find out it you’re a lesbian.
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Go with your feelings.I’m sorry you’re not comfortable talking about this with your parents–that’s a tough situation.
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U HAVE TO DO A SMALL TEST WITH A GIRL !!!
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first, i would open a can of tuna fish and scarf it down. if you like it you must be a lesbian!
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only liking girls does not mean u r lesbian. b friends with boys, and find out if u really are a lesbian.
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If you really believe that you’re a lesbian, and you are comfortable with people knowing about it, go for it.
Your parents might not approve, but you need to live the way that makes YOU happy. Your parents might not understand at first, but in the long run, they want you to be happy and will try to understand.
Maybe your straight friend knows of somebody that would like to go out with you.
Things would be a lot easier if you were honest with yourself and others. Then you wouldn’t feel like you had to hide the real you.
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just tell them, it might hurt them but holding in something like that will hurt you even more. If this friend of your’s is really truely a friend then she’ll except you the way you are but you should also respect her as being”straight” If They all diss you then F*** them you’ll become plenty rich and leave them out of your will! LOL
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go out to a couple of gay clubs see how you like it here is one for you try eating kitty its good i know cause I’m a lesbian trapped in a mans body ha ha funny funny get it trapped in a mans body
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I think you already no your a lesbian, by how you are talking…respect your friend though…if she knows you like girls, but still lets you know she straight leave her alone…shes your friend! Find another crush! Your parents may not understand, but they’ll always love you… there your parents!
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it depends if you belive in god. God made to only have male and female relation ships. but if not you will find another person that probalby will be like you.
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Hmmmm, it sounds as though you know the answer to this. Just because your folks don’t approve of homosexuality, doesn’t mean you get to choose your sexual preference. If you have a crush on a member of the same sex, it’s no different than having a crush on the opposite sex. How you label it is the only difference. So yeah, society would call you a lesbian. All that really doesn’t matter as long as you are honest with yourself. Don’t betray yourself to make your parents happy. You don’t have to come out to them just yet anyway. You can wait until you are living on your own and don’t really need to answer to anyone.
Your friend, however, is not attracted to women. So, I wouldn’t push the issue on her. You should however, seek out other girls that have similar sexual preferences. There are lots of ressources available to you on the internet. Just run a search and you will find that there is a huge community out there waiting to embrace you for who you are. Also, don’t take these people seriously who talk about eating tuna and going down on a girl. These people are dolts. You should be intimate with a girl you care about when you are good and ready.
Good luck.
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i suggest you find an adult that you are comfortable talking with and trust since you obviously can not with your parents. we do not plan who we fall for we just do. sounds as though you have struggled enough. although many have opinions on being gay, you must get in touch with who you really are and be allowed to live a happy life. my best friend is a lesbian. we’ve been best friends since 7th grade. she has never expected me to be a lesbian and i’ve never thought about changing her. the only problem i see here is you could very well ruin a friendship if you suddenly announce to your best friend you have a crush on her. maybe you should try visiting a gay bar. whatever happens accept yourself for who you are. love yourself and if others doesn’t accept you then that’s their problem. good luck sweetie!! the world is a tough place to be sometimes but you’ll be just fine!!
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I was in the exact same situation a few years ago in highschool. So, I know what you’re going through. This is a tough situation, as coming out always is, but it usually gets better.
Just go with your feelings. Don’t force anything, let events take care of themselves naturally. You’ll know when you’ve met a girl you want to get serious with. You’ll know when (if ever) it’s the right moment to come out to other friends and to your parents. You’ll know how far out of the closet is right for you.
For now, I’d try networking with other people you know are gay or bisexual. Make friends and educate yourself. This can be a long lonely journey, so it’s nice to have people you can talk to who know exactly what you’re saying and have often been there themselves. For me, there was nobody local so I met people online at gay.com That can turn into a meat-market though, so I’m not sure I’d recommend that method, but you understand the principle I hope.
Also, read a lot. Read testimonies of other gays who have come out or gone through difficult times. This will help you to see that you’re not alone. It will also educate you more and give you ideas for how to cope with your life.
See if there is a local PFLAG (Parents and Friends of Lesbians And Gays) in your area. Go to one of their meetings if you can. It will help you understand how to better deal with your parents if/when you decide to come out to them. It will also be a support for you and them.
I hope this helps you. Good luck with your journey and feel free to write me if you have anymore questions or just need to talk. I know how difficult this can be, but trust me, you’ll be happier being true to yourself than trying to be someone/something you’re not.
FR
PS – God and religion have nothing to do with being gay. Don’t let that confuse the issue for you. Be true to yourself, no matter what that truth is. Figure out the theology of it after you know where you stand.
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Something that I feel that you should do is explor and experiment. Go to Gay bars, events, socials, and etc. Talk to gay and lesbian people get feed back from them how they live life, and how they deal with these issues. Once you know for sure if you are gay or even bi-sexual then be honest with yourself and your family. Living a double standard life is not healthy or the way to live. If you have to lie to save face you will only hurt your self in the long term. Look you can not live your life for other people. Yes they are family, and I know you love them. However, you will always have to live with yourself not with your parents. Look if we lived life for others then we would never get anywhere. Trying to please every single person in our life we would never find time, peace, or any happiness in our own life. You can not please the world. Honesty is best…I know that is so cliche but it is the truth. Being able to face yourself and your loved ones honestly is far better than living out a lie and it bitting you in the rear end latter. Know who you are, and be true to yourself, and the people you love. You will always be their daughter when it comes right down to it, but if they denie you because of your sexuality; then they are ignorant of life, will obviously regret not knowing the great person you are, and will become. That is their choice to shut you out. At least you loved and respected them to tell them the truth, and give them the option of weather or not they will continue to support you or not. Remember this one thing above all else …..When all the chips are down, and all your family and friends are gone you will always have to live with who and what you are. So know your self, be honest to yourself, and be honest to the ones you love. Strength comes from learning how to face yourself and believeing in who and what you are. By living honestly you will have peace in life and will be able to live your life with out having to always worrie about the truth comming out. Hiding and running from the truth is far more difficult then just facing the thruth.
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Enjoy!
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as long as u are happy u do want u want to do be free be wild oh well u live once
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you need to try to be with a woman ..
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