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im lesbian, now my gf and me relation not very good. she alwax said we cant together should i stay loving her?

we both together 9 months. i love her much and she too. but now we cant alwax together coz she having exam, she will separated from me for three years. i love her and dont want lose her..she so special for me. this few days she said we cant together or in the future…coz we against the law.but i really love her. she is my goal my future…how could i live wihout her. i want some tactic to make her love me…how ???i know the chance to be with her is very low…maybe negative but i really want to try..angree???teach me please what should i do…im 25 years..and she just 20…
but she alwax said we can still be friend,…i want to c her everyday but the feeling vey painful when she treat her really like her friend only not like “LOVE”….

how do you tell your overly-religous christian mom that you’ve decided on a different religion?

I’ve decided to pursue Paganism, once I turn 18, (in another year), and i find it really uncomfortable to go to church with her, because i don’t believe in half the sermons. I don’t want to throw this at her, cause 9 months ago, I came out as a lesbian, and that gave her a near heart-attack; and she’s just starting to get used to it now. can anyone help with advice? should I wait until i’m 18 and off at college?
thanks a lot,
-Tian
PS: in light of lovely answers… i’ve had a few laughs… i’m ok with Paganism. and I know of most of what it consist of.. and i’m not in it as a fashion statement or as a teenage thing. I’m serious about this, and i appreciate everyone advice! thanks.
i hate how you can’t edit this thing…. lol… thanks willywyo for you lovely advice, i think i’ll follow it and to the others, thanks as well… to those who are like “satan has captured you…” saying stuff like that, isn’t exactly helpful. i think that if you voice your opinions in a nice yet joking manner, i’ll be more resceptable to them. like someone said “Hey mom, I’ve decided to let my soul perish..” i thought that was funny. so yeah… thanks