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Need some advice, please put your mind into it, best answer gets 10 points!!?

I’m lesbian and had a terrible break up with an ex girlfriend of mine. People suggested that I seek counseling to help me to deal with the break up. I’ve been going to counseling for about a month or two now, I go every week. To find out my counselor is lesbian also and offered me a pride ring being she didn’t want it. I said sure and sure enough the following week (last week) she gave it to me. She has also been telling me for awhile now that I need to get out and try finding someone again, and for awhile I was stuck on just trying to deal with my problem with the break up I’ve been through. So last week she told me about some places she hangs out and such and tomorrow she’s going to be there at the place I’ve decided to go to. I don’t know whether it’s because I told her i feel uncomfortable going alone somewhere for the first time that she told me she would be there or what. But I’ve talked to a few people who told me she’s just trying to help then others saying that she may like me
She has commented on how good my perfume smells and has shown me a picture of what she used to look like. Has all but told me where she lives, just not an address. Should I read into this as her being attracted to me or what? By the way the picture she showed me was on her driver’s license (keep in mind they do have the address on license)

Is anyone on here a lesbian that can help me out with my other question?

help me with my breaking up another couple question please… i need the advice of someone whose been in the position… as in a lesbian!!! PEACE

how do you tell your overly-religous christian mom that you’ve decided on a different religion?

I’ve decided to pursue Paganism, once I turn 18, (in another year), and i find it really uncomfortable to go to church with her, because i don’t believe in half the sermons. I don’t want to throw this at her, cause 9 months ago, I came out as a lesbian, and that gave her a near heart-attack; and she’s just starting to get used to it now. can anyone help with advice? should I wait until i’m 18 and off at college?
thanks a lot,
-Tian
PS: in light of lovely answers… i’ve had a few laughs… i’m ok with Paganism. and I know of most of what it consist of.. and i’m not in it as a fashion statement or as a teenage thing. I’m serious about this, and i appreciate everyone advice! thanks.
i hate how you can’t edit this thing…. lol… thanks willywyo for you lovely advice, i think i’ll follow it and to the others, thanks as well… to those who are like “satan has captured you…” saying stuff like that, isn’t exactly helpful. i think that if you voice your opinions in a nice yet joking manner, i’ll be more resceptable to them. like someone said “Hey mom, I’ve decided to let my soul perish..” i thought that was funny. so yeah… thanks

Help!!!! I need advice.?

I’m a fourteen year old girl. I never thought i was a lesbian till a couple weeks ago. I was at a sleepover and all i could do was stare at my friends. Now i think that i’m Bi. I nedd help telling my parents. Please some good advice.
I don’t have a female to talk to. Please give me different answers

Why do women give other women bad advice?

Married women,lesbians and women in relationships ALWAYS say “dump em”, “get rid of him”,or “kick him to the curb” Is this a viable solution ALL the time? Can married women stay married using this logic?or can a woman stay in a sucessful relationship everytime she gets mad at him she drops him? Please stop giving advice that hurt other females, that only causes them to be bitter towards men.