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Should I tell my family I am a lesbian?

I told my friends, but not my family. One big reason is..they hate gay people. My sister is a homophobe, big time. My brother hates all gays. And my other brother is a bible-christian freak, who thinks they are evil. the problem is I have a g/f already, and she wants me to tell them. I don’t know.
Parents:
My mom, i really think she would freak out if I told her, she already hates the fact that i’m not really as “girly” as she wants me to be. If I told her she would just, i don’t know.
As for my dad, I really think, he kinda thinks I am, i don’t think it would bother him, but then again. You see my dad has a couple gay friends and he says stuff like “yea, I have gay-dar” you know as a joke.

how to break the news?

im bisexual…and i have actually had more lesbian relationships than straight. the problem is that my brother and father are extreamly religious, and are disgusted with gays and lesbians. i dont think i have the bravery to tell my dad but i really want to tell my brother, because we are really close. how do i tell him?
this is one thing he would not get over

coming out?

I’m graduating soon and going off to the army, when do u think is a good time to tell my homophobic dad that i’m a lesbian? and how should i do it?! i mean he’s super homophobic he once said “i’d rather you be a prostitute than be gay” and that he’d “shoot both of you(me and my brother) if i ever found out you were gay!” …..

i’m so dead!
okay so its not really the army army its the national guard, wich is just as bad on the whole homophobia thing, just wanted to clear it up a little.

Should I tell my family I am a lesbian?

I told my friends, but not my family. One big reason is..they hate gay people. My sister is a homophobe, big time. My brother hates all gays. And my other brother is a bible-christian freak, who thinks they are evil. the problem is I have a g/f already, and she wants me to tell them. I don’t know.
Parents:
My mom, i really think she would freak out if I told her, she already hates the fact that i’m not really as “girly” as she wants me to be. If I told her she would just, i don’t know.
As for my dad, I really think, he kinda thinks I am, i don’t think it would bother him, but then again. You see my dad has a couple gay friends and he says stuff like “yea, I have gay-dar” you know as a joke.

how to break the news?

im bisexual…and i have actually had more lesbian relationships than straight. the problem is that my brother and father are extreamly religious, and are disgusted with gays and lesbians. i dont think i have the bravery to tell my dad but i really want to tell my brother, because we are really close. how do i tell him?
this is one thing he would not get over