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Girls following the norm?

I would like to know why it is such a necessity in America for young females to experiment with another girl. It seems like there is hardly a single girl on a college campus that has not at least made out with a girl. Is this just for show? Guys don’t have this same issue, so what causes it if you are not a lesbian?

im not a lesbian……..?

im 17 and im a freshman at smith college which is an all women college in MA…i started college there in jan 2006…gay people are largely welcomed at smith and are treted like normal human beings…there’s this girl who goes to my classes..who is a lesbian and she was always going on and on about how she liked me but i always ignored her…one day i had this really bad fight with my bf over the phone and she was there for me and the next thing i knew she was kissing me and i was kissing her back something ive never done before..she was touching me all over and she went down on me,i just wasnt thinking that night and the morning afterwards i was sooo ashamed.we didnt have sex but i just felt soo dirty…no she goes around telling everyone that we’re a couple even though when i first started out i made it clear i wasnt gay.now everyone thinks im a liar…worse still some girls at smith know my bf and im terrified of what will happen if he ever gets to know about this!! what do i do???

hello! answer my ques?

Well to keep it sweet and simple, I live on my college campus and while it is very small, people around here have really big imaginations. Basically there has been some rumors among a group of girls that I am a lesbian, and to make it worse that I have been checking them out. Now I am a very open minded person and while I habor no kind of prejudice to homsexuals; it doesn’t change the fact that I am not one. While they have very incriminating evidence as I use to frequent a gay club in support of my gay friend, I don’t think its any of their business what I do in my spare time anyhow. Beyond that it is really hurting my pride that there are girls on my campus deluded enough that think they are attractive enough to get my attention–yes I happen to be very cocky and very picky. I am usually cool calm and collected in situations of similar ilk but I really just want to beat somebody up right now…truly…Any tips?

What should I do? Don’t be a prick?

Well to keep it sweet and simple, I live on my college campus and while it is very small, people around here have really big imaginations. Basically there has been some rumors among a group of girls that I am a lesbian, and to make it worse that I have been checking them out. Now I am a very open minded person and while I habor no kind of prejudice to homsexuals; it doesn’t change the fact that I am not one. While they have very incriminating evidence as I use to frequent a gay club in support of my gay friend, I don’t think its any of their business what I do in my spare time anyhow. Beyond that it is really hurting my pride that there are girls on my campus deluded enough that think they are attractive enough to get my attention–yes I happen to be very cocky and very picky. I am usually cool calm and collected in situations of similar ilk but I really just want to beat somebody up right now…truly…Any tips?

What would be the best way to tell my parents that I am a lesbian after already lying to them about it before?

I decided I liked girls when I was 11 and now I’m going to be 18 next year. I am moving on to college and everything. They don’t agree with anything that is like that (they’re obviously closed minded), but I’m tired of living a lie.