how bad that is. i told her that that is the same thing as not being friends with someone because they are black. she was just like OHH I LOVE BLACKS! i asked her what she would do if i was one, i told her to answer seriously and she just steered away from the topic and changed the subject. she later tells me that she hates mexicans, she hates lesbians, she loves gays and she loves blacks. what kind of discrimination is this? how can i get it through to her how bad it is to think that way?