she just came out of the closet and her family disowned her so she had to move continents to find herself,well that’s what they said she should do.
she just came out of the closet and her family disowned her so she had to move continents to find herself,well that’s what they said she should do.
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I’m a lesbian and Im in an interracial relationship, how do I tell my family?
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can being a lesbian affect how others look at your family members and why?
I told my friends, but not my family. One big reason is..they hate gay people. My sister is a homophobe, big time. My brother hates all gays. And my other brother is a bible-christian freak, who thinks they are evil. the problem is I have a g/f already, and she wants me to tell them. I don’t know.
Parents:
My mom, i really think she would freak out if I told her, she already hates the fact that i’m not really as “girly” as she wants me to be. If I told her she would just, i don’t know.
As for my dad, I really think, he kinda thinks I am, i don’t think it would bother him, but then again. You see my dad has a couple gay friends and he says stuff like “yea, I have gay-dar” you know as a joke.
the women is 38 years old with many exclusively classic and complete symptoms of bdp- a true case study with great abandonment issues and a deep, deep denial mechanism. She has just ‘lured’ me in with trust to open up again and she just had an angry outburst filled with twisted reality-all meant to blame me and deflect the root problems. She usually has outburst of anger lasting four to five days with which she barely will apologize and compromise on the reality of what and why it happened. She exhibits little remorse and is very protective of her emotions. Family history is filled with bdp and abuse. She also has an eating disorder, has slept with an adolescent client, engaged in lesbian relations for a few years, now exclusive to men, and has been in most relationships with addicts of some sort. She admits that she manipulates her therapists and has stopped seeing her most recent one. She actually is a certified Marriage and Family Therapist currently practicing.
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