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Help! My best friend is a lesbian.?

I just found out that my best friend is a lesbian. She wants me to go with her and do things with her but I have a boyfriend and don’t have any intentions to be with a female. Someone please help me.

What should I do…married female in love with another female?

Will try to make this short. It’s a long story. My husband and I have been married for 11 years, been together a total of almost 19 years…the first 17 years of us being together my husband was an alcoholic and I feel out of love with him. About 4 1/2 years ago I met a lesbian who is a now a very good friend of mine and I feel in love with her. I feel quilty as heck about it with being married but she doesn’t feel the same so we are just friends but I still love her with all my heart and don’t know how to get over her so that we can remain friends. She has always been very understanding of my feelings and etc even when I get jealous of her and her girl friend and other issues but it is still hard on our friendship sometimes. She gave her new g/f a ring and I know that one day the’ll have a ceromony and she’ll want me to be there as a friend and I want to be too but I want these feelings to go away before that time so I don’t get jealous or anything. Any comments or suggestions
In responces to some of the answers I got I don’t really want a divorce now. It might be wrong but since I can’t have the one I love with all my heart I will stay with my husband who does love me with all his heart and we have been through alot and now that he don’t drink we get along pretty well. I can’t stay totally away from her to try to get over her because she is like my best friend. I did start working nights so that I would see her less but I can’t get her completely out of my life. I would be miserable. Thanks for all the responses….keep them coming please.

I really need advice on this relationship….?

Hi could really use some advice… I’m not sure if I am bisexual or lesbian, I just know I’ve had relationships both with men and woman, but the most intense ones have been with women. Right now I got involved with a really close friend, but she’s just going to turn 17 and I’m 31. That’s my first problem, the big age difference, we don’t care, but I’m sure other people would think it’s sick or something.

I never told my family any of this, but yesterday my mom asked me if I was a lesbian, and if I had a relationship with this “friend” and I just couldn’t deny it to her face. I’m not sure how she’ll handle everything, since I’ve always been her “perfect daughter”.

Now my other problem is, I don’t live in the US, my girlfriend does, and the whole long distance thing is really hard too. People where I live are a lot more close minded than in the US. You don’t usually see girls together, and it’s definitely not socially accepted at all. Any advice would be really appreciated.
Thanks weaversscc2004 and mel. We are thinking of having her move over here when she can, but I live in a very close minded society…
Thanks broke!that was really helpful. I can´t visit once a month cause we live really far, but we do talk on the phone a lot and use a webcam. I´d love to get in touch with you…

What would you do if you’re straight, and your gay/lesbian friend tells s/he’s in love with you so badly?

What would you do if you’re straight, and your gay/lesbian friend tells s/he’s in love with you so badly?

I foundout my girlfriend is lesbian?

see my girl friend told me she is lesbian but wants us to continun our realationship but she is going to continun beeing lesbian,i don’t know what to do like i love her very much what should i do

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