Hey I am a lesbian female and I have been with my mate for a year and a half,,,,she wants to get married…..????? I mean I am not quite ready but I love her to death…..I have only been a lesbian for a year in a half….I don’t know if I am ready….She is a very jealous person like uncotrollabely jealous. She thinks everyone is out to be with me or steal me from her…..my word doesn’t seem to be good enough because I once left her to give my baby daddy another try….after me and his 4 year relationship and I think she is just ensecure….what do you think?