(I am not a lesbian) I just feel so much more comfortable with men than women, I feel like women are constantly judging me and I cannot relax around them. Is it weird for me, as a female to do this? What do you think a psychologist would say about this, was it something to do with how I grew up? I hate it because I really want to hang out with the girls, but I don’t feel right hanging out unless I really know them. A guy though, I can hang out and have an indepth conversation and not even think twice about what I say. this is not only with women my age (33) but older women as well, but older men, I am fine with. Is this weird, and no, it is not a sexual situation here, just to get that out of the way.