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Can a gay or lesbian person go to heaven???

If a homosexual accepts Lord Jesus Christ into his heart,, but does not want to change his lifestyle, can he / she still go to Heaven?

Do you believe lesbians who have a good heart, and live a good life, will go to Heaven?

I am a good person, been spiritual and religious all my life. I believe in the Bible and God and Jesus, and live to the best of my ability by the principles of God as found in the Bible. But I wonder if I will go to heaven for the love in my heart and my good fine works.

Ladies only: Tell me why you think women become bi or lesbian?

I don’t buy it that you’re just born that way. I wanna know what you think. You may even change my opinion. And yes, I know there are many different reasons but I want what’s in YOUR head(and heart). Thanks!

Serious question: Why do Minnesota women act so strange around me with this cold bitchy anti-male attitude?

I’m a Minnesotan. I’m single, nice looking (better than average) big man. I’m 6’5″ tall 245lbs. with big broad shoulders and large arms. I’m 39 yrs. old; I shower frequently and dress nice. I have a pleasant demeanor with a loving heart. I love and respect women in a really big way!
But when I am out in public (grocery shopping, the mall, Wal-Mart, etc.) women get this bithchy anti-male bull dike lesbian attitude and act like I’m going to some how harm them, always watching over there shoulder and all.
Of course I’m not starring at them or stalking them in the stores, etc.
If they just knew me for who I really am, they would know I can’t even think of doing such a horrible thing!! Instead, if any of these women I were friends or more, I would only love, honor and respect them. I am a lover not a fighter.
Some people have said, because of my size I look rather intimidating. I can’t help my size so what’s a big guy to do? Is it just Minnesota women or does this happen elsewhere?
Thanks for the great responses. I’ve tried to find a woman in church. I’m there pretty much weekly. and the single women are all the same way Flighty, snobbish and very standoffish.
My advice would be if you’re a single guy looking for your sole mate when you’re not Brad Pitt and your not super rich (making 6-8 figures/yr.) then DO NOT move to Minnesota! You’ll be single for the rest of your life. From my experience, the women here prove to be as cold as the winters. That’s COLD! MN is gold digger central. The huge majority of people in Minnesota are Scandinavians (Norwegian and Swedish decent)ie Vikings. My decent is German. Non-Scandinavians here say that it’s ice water, not blood flows through these people’s veins. Men and women alike who are rude, cold, arrogant, standoffish, etc. There’s a few who are true exceptions of course.
I plan on moving to Dallas TX at the end of June. I hope the people are much nicer. How are the women there? A better place or much the same?

What should I do…married female in love with another female?

Will try to make this short. It’s a long story. My husband and I have been married for 11 years, been together a total of almost 19 years…the first 17 years of us being together my husband was an alcoholic and I feel out of love with him. About 4 1/2 years ago I met a lesbian who is a now a very good friend of mine and I feel in love with her. I feel quilty as heck about it with being married but she doesn’t feel the same so we are just friends but I still love her with all my heart and don’t know how to get over her so that we can remain friends. She has always been very understanding of my feelings and etc even when I get jealous of her and her girl friend and other issues but it is still hard on our friendship sometimes. She gave her new g/f a ring and I know that one day the’ll have a ceromony and she’ll want me to be there as a friend and I want to be too but I want these feelings to go away before that time so I don’t get jealous or anything. Any comments or suggestions
In responces to some of the answers I got I don’t really want a divorce now. It might be wrong but since I can’t have the one I love with all my heart I will stay with my husband who does love me with all his heart and we have been through alot and now that he don’t drink we get along pretty well. I can’t stay totally away from her to try to get over her because she is like my best friend. I did start working nights so that I would see her less but I can’t get her completely out of my life. I would be miserable. Thanks for all the responses….keep them coming please.