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Lesbian in love with a married woman?

I met this gay lady online, first we were just friends then we discovered there is actualy chemistry between us, we both found each other irrestable and we’ve made hot passionate love a few times, unfortunately her husband found out and it caused a lot of problem, she is determined to see me so we begin to sneak around and it just makes the sex even hotter..but..I know it will never work, I know I will never have her but unfortunately I have fallen in love with her, she wants to be with me so badly that she cries herself to sleep most nights…its a sad situation, how do I walk away from her without hurting her and hurting myself?
Yes she has kids her husband cheated on her and got another kid outside of the marriage, that’s when she started seeking comfort but she realized that she didnt want another man but a woman instead, she desperately wants to leave her husband but she fears him greatly as he threathens to have her disgraced because of her lesbian tendency, he also threathens to tell the kids and this subdues her even more than the other threats, he forces himself on her because she does not want sex with him anymore, all these are known facts and I have become more of a friend and a shoulder to cry on than actually just a lover. if i walk away now it’s hard because i’m in so deep but she is too weak and frightened of him to leave him plus she is extremely protective of her kids….plus she’s very dependent on me for comfort & support

What should I do…married female in love with another female?

Will try to make this short. It’s a long story. My husband and I have been married for 11 years, been together a total of almost 19 years…the first 17 years of us being together my husband was an alcoholic and I feel out of love with him. About 4 1/2 years ago I met a lesbian who is a now a very good friend of mine and I feel in love with her. I feel quilty as heck about it with being married but she doesn’t feel the same so we are just friends but I still love her with all my heart and don’t know how to get over her so that we can remain friends. She has always been very understanding of my feelings and etc even when I get jealous of her and her girl friend and other issues but it is still hard on our friendship sometimes. She gave her new g/f a ring and I know that one day the’ll have a ceromony and she’ll want me to be there as a friend and I want to be too but I want these feelings to go away before that time so I don’t get jealous or anything. Any comments or suggestions
In responces to some of the answers I got I don’t really want a divorce now. It might be wrong but since I can’t have the one I love with all my heart I will stay with my husband who does love me with all his heart and we have been through alot and now that he don’t drink we get along pretty well. I can’t stay totally away from her to try to get over her because she is like my best friend. I did start working nights so that I would see her less but I can’t get her completely out of my life. I would be miserable. Thanks for all the responses….keep them coming please.

Lesbian in love with a married woman?

I met this gay lady online, first we were just friends then we discovered there is actualy chemistry between us, we both found each other irrestable and we’ve made hot passionate love a few times, unfortunately her husband found out and it caused a lot of problem, she is determined to see me so we begin to sneak around and it just makes the sex even hotter..but..I know it will never work, I know I will never have her but unfortunately I have fallen in love with her, she wants to be with me so badly that she cries herself to sleep most nights…its a sad situation, how do I walk away from her without hurting her and hurting myself?
Yes she has kids her husband cheated on her and got another kid outside of the marriage, that’s when she started seeking comfort but she realized that she didnt want another man but a woman instead, she desperately wants to leave her husband but she fears him greatly as he threathens to have her disgraced because of her lesbian tendency, he also threathens to tell the kids and this subdues her even more than the other threats, he forces himself on her because she does not want sex with him anymore, all these are known facts and I have become more of a friend and a shoulder to cry on than actually just a lover. if i walk away now it’s hard because i’m in so deep but she is too weak and frightened of him to leave him plus she is extremely protective of her kids….plus she’s very dependent on me for comfort & support

What should I do…married female in love with another female?

Will try to make this short. It’s a long story. My husband and I have been married for 11 years, been together a total of almost 19 years…the first 17 years of us being together my husband was an alcoholic and I feel out of love with him. About 4 1/2 years ago I met a lesbian who is a now a very good friend of mine and I feel in love with her. I feel quilty as heck about it with being married but she doesn’t feel the same so we are just friends but I still love her with all my heart and don’t know how to get over her so that we can remain friends. She has always been very understanding of my feelings and etc even when I get jealous of her and her girl friend and other issues but it is still hard on our friendship sometimes. She gave her new g/f a ring and I know that one day the’ll have a ceromony and she’ll want me to be there as a friend and I want to be too but I want these feelings to go away before that time so I don’t get jealous or anything. Any comments or suggestions
In responces to some of the answers I got I don’t really want a divorce now. It might be wrong but since I can’t have the one I love with all my heart I will stay with my husband who does love me with all his heart and we have been through alot and now that he don’t drink we get along pretty well. I can’t stay totally away from her to try to get over her because she is like my best friend. I did start working nights so that I would see her less but I can’t get her completely out of my life. I would be miserable. Thanks for all the responses….keep them coming please.