I am not into the bar scene. I’m a completely different kind of lesbian. Pretty much a lesbian that came out of The L Word. I’m femme and want a monogamous relationship, but don’t know where to find a compatible partner. Most people go to the bars. I”m not into that. I’m more into my career, movies, beaches, art, music, literature and books. I’m more mellow and low key than the typical bar scene. What’s a single, hot, intelligent lesbian to do??