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How can same sex marriage ruin heterosexual marriage?

Posted on September 20, 2011 by admin| 16 Comments

I hear this ALL the time, its one of the big reasons why people like myself (yes i’m a lesbian) aren’t allowed to have the same legal rights as a heterosexual would.
How can someone elses anything effect your marriage? Let alone people you have never met nor will ever meet???
If marriage between a man and woman is THAT weak then you all really have some serious internal issues you have to work on!

P.S. I know not all heterosexual people are against same sex unions :)
lol amy its good to know you are not all bad :P
thank you chaos :)

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Where is lesbian marriage legal?

Posted on September 19, 2011 by admin| 7 Comments

In which countries/states/territories around the world can lesbians be married?

AND

In which countries/states/territories where it is illegal is a lesbian marriage recognised as a legal union if it was performed somewhere else where it IS legal to be married as lesbians?

Sorry the questions a bit obtuse, it’s hard to phrase succinctly. Basically, me and my gal wanna get hitched, and want to know a) where we can get have a legal/civil ceremony and b) where we can go in the world where it will be rocognised. our jobs take us around the world, you see.
Cool, does anyone know any more? I heard Massachusetts? (sorry if that’s badly spelt, I’m Australian!!)

By “free countries recognise equal rights”, do you mean if my marriage is legal where it happened, it will be recognised in other countries too?

Also, do I need local residence to be married legally in any of these places?

If I become a citizen/resident of a country which DOESN’T allow lesbian marriage, will they still recognise it?

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How should a wife (25) react discovering husband (27) masterbating with lesbian porn? (2 yr old marriage)?

Posted on September 19, 2011 by admin| 11 Comments

# Wife has suggested husband to watch together if he really wants to.
# It was a love marriage after seeing each other for 3 1/2 months.
# Husband contacted wife through yahoo personals
# Interracial marriage: South Asian wife (student) & White American husband (attorney)

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what’s best way to interact with a women who has borderline personality disorder, especially when she’s angry?

Posted on September 10, 2011 by admin| 10 Comments

the women is 38 years old with many exclusively classic and complete symptoms of bdp- a true case study with great abandonment issues and a deep, deep denial mechanism. She has just ‘lured’ me in with trust to open up again and she just had an angry outburst filled with twisted reality-all meant to blame me and deflect the root problems. She usually has outburst of anger lasting four to five days with which she barely will apologize and compromise on the reality of what and why it happened. She exhibits little remorse and is very protective of her emotions. Family history is filled with bdp and abuse. She also has an eating disorder, has slept with an adolescent client, engaged in lesbian relations for a few years, now exclusive to men, and has been in most relationships with addicts of some sort. She admits that she manipulates her therapists and has stopped seeing her most recent one. She actually is a certified Marriage and Family Therapist currently practicing.

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On the issue of Gay/lesbian unions harming sanctity of marriage. I’ve heard from the don’t effect crowd

Posted on August 25, 2011 by admin| 3 Comments

So if there is anyone who can explain to me how the sanctity of marriage is adversely effected by Gay/Lesbian unions why don’t you speak up? Could it be the lack of a logical answer to back that theory?
Please don’t just say marriage is for procreation. You don’t need to be married to knock someone up. Tell me how marriage is effected.

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