I am a gay but my friends and schoolmates don’t know about this feeling of mine. Aand now i,m inlove to one my friends, i’m worry! will he believe me if he will know my feelings towards him…
I am a gay but my friends and schoolmates don’t know about this feeling of mine. Aand now i,m inlove to one my friends, i’m worry! will he believe me if he will know my feelings towards him…
Will try to make this short. It’s a long story. My husband and I have been married for 11 years, been together a total of almost 19 years…the first 17 years of us being together my husband was an alcoholic and I feel out of love with him. About 4 1/2 years ago I met a lesbian who is a now a very good friend of mine and I feel in love with her. I feel quilty as heck about it with being married but she doesn’t feel the same so we are just friends but I still love her with all my heart and don’t know how to get over her so that we can remain friends. She has always been very understanding of my feelings and etc even when I get jealous of her and her girl friend and other issues but it is still hard on our friendship sometimes. She gave her new g/f a ring and I know that one day the’ll have a ceromony and she’ll want me to be there as a friend and I want to be too but I want these feelings to go away before that time so I don’t get jealous or anything. Any comments or suggestions
In responces to some of the answers I got I don’t really want a divorce now. It might be wrong but since I can’t have the one I love with all my heart I will stay with my husband who does love me with all his heart and we have been through alot and now that he don’t drink we get along pretty well. I can’t stay totally away from her to try to get over her because she is like my best friend. I did start working nights so that I would see her less but I can’t get her completely out of my life. I would be miserable. Thanks for all the responses….keep them coming please.
I’m lesbian and had a terrible break up with an ex girlfriend of mine. People suggested that I seek counseling to help me to deal with the break up. I’ve been going to counseling for about a month or two now, I go every week. To find out my counselor is lesbian also and offered me a pride ring being she didn’t want it. I said sure and sure enough the following week (last week) she gave it to me. She has also been telling me for awhile now that I need to get out and try finding someone again, and for awhile I was stuck on just trying to deal with my problem with the break up I’ve been through. So last week she told me about some places she hangs out and such and tomorrow she’s going to be there at the place I’ve decided to go to. I don’t know whether it’s because I told her i feel uncomfortable going alone somewhere for the first time that she told me she would be there or what. But I’ve talked to a few people who told me she’s just trying to help then others saying that she may like me
She has commented on how good my perfume smells and has shown me a picture of what she used to look like. Has all but told me where she lives, just not an address. Should I read into this as her being attracted to me or what? By the way the picture she showed me was on her driver’s license (keep in mind they do have the address on license)
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I am a girl (15 years old) and I permanently think of a friend of mine (who is also a girl) and I permanently want to see her and to send her SMS.in school I always look for a reason in order to see her and to be close to her.But I also love a boy,and I have buterflies in the stomach when I see my favourite singer!..Am I lesbian?or is it normal as she is my friend?if I am lesbian what shall I do?Shall I tell her?I think she likes me (as a friend) because she always talks to me and I dont ant to loose her!
I have been experiencing this weird dreams,==> A woman (lesbian) wants me to go with her and pressures me into things and I always reject her and she keeps asking me to be her gf which I totally say no!!! this is not normal I know. My sister makes fun of me and even says I have a lesbian hidden side in me, wchich scares me becuase I am not lesbian and never wanted to be! I am married already and it bothers me to have those nasty dreams, they come very frecuently. I hope anyone can tell me why is that happening to me? And if anyone has had an experience similar to mine…