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Lesbian in love with a married woman?

I met this gay lady online, first we were just friends then we discovered there is actualy chemistry between us, we both found each other irrestable and we’ve made hot passionate love a few times, unfortunately her husband found out and it caused a lot of problem, she is determined to see me so we begin to sneak around and it just makes the sex even hotter..but..I know it will never work, I know I will never have her but unfortunately I have fallen in love with her, she wants to be with me so badly that she cries herself to sleep most nights…its a sad situation, how do I walk away from her without hurting her and hurting myself?
Yes she has kids her husband cheated on her and got another kid outside of the marriage, that’s when she started seeking comfort but she realized that she didnt want another man but a woman instead, she desperately wants to leave her husband but she fears him greatly as he threathens to have her disgraced because of her lesbian tendency, he also threathens to tell the kids and this subdues her even more than the other threats, he forces himself on her because she does not want sex with him anymore, all these are known facts and I have become more of a friend and a shoulder to cry on than actually just a lover. if i walk away now it’s hard because i’m in so deep but she is too weak and frightened of him to leave him plus she is extremely protective of her kids….plus she’s very dependent on me for comfort & support

How do you feel about Gay people? Honestly. I want to know. Please answer.?

I have no problem with them. In fact i think they’re great. I know many gay people, and have many gay friends. They are really no different then the rest of us. They deserve to be treated with the same respect and kindness as anyone else. They are still human. Just with a different sexual preference. So why are people so against them. It’s their life. Leave them alone. They should be free to do what they want without anyone shaming them for it. Who are we to judge anyone anyways. We are no better off then anyone ourselves. So what’s up with it? What is the big deal if someone is gay? Why is it so hard for some people to accept them? I myself am not gay, or bi, or lesbian. I am perfectly straight. But i am all for gays. I think they are wonderful. Kind hearted people. So how do you feel about them is what i want to know?

I’m a lesbian…?

not that that sounds like a problem that needs answering, but I have dating difficulties. I’m very “out” and anytime I go out of town, I have no problems picking up girls. I’m not ugly, at least not butt ugly or people wouldn’t harass me onling all the time on myspace and stuff. However, I can’t seem to get a girl in the town where I live. It’s not very acceptable, seeing as the town is full of dumb rednecks. Even the two girls I have met from my town were butt ugly rednecks. HELP ME! Relocating is not an option, as I am very close with my family and 3 young nephews.

Lesbian Problems?

My partner and I are lesbians and we have been together for 2 years. She does not seem to me like me sexual wise. I would like to make love more often and she only likes to make love one or two times a month. This is a problem for me because I crave affection and love. I thought she might just want a man, or me to be sexier but she just says that is how she is. What should I do?
She has gained some weight so that might be a factor.

Should I tell my family I am a lesbian?

I told my friends, but not my family. One big reason is..they hate gay people. My sister is a homophobe, big time. My brother hates all gays. And my other brother is a bible-christian freak, who thinks they are evil. the problem is I have a g/f already, and she wants me to tell them. I don’t know.
Parents:
My mom, i really think she would freak out if I told her, she already hates the fact that i’m not really as “girly” as she wants me to be. If I told her she would just, i don’t know.
As for my dad, I really think, he kinda thinks I am, i don’t think it would bother him, but then again. You see my dad has a couple gay friends and he says stuff like “yea, I have gay-dar” you know as a joke.