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Should I leave my husband for the woman I’ve been seeing for 2 years (a lesbian) I love them both…?

he is the steady-eddie type, she is the passionate one (sometimes w/a little drama) ….. problem is, I connect more with her than with him….but he’s more even-keeled. At times I love her more, at times him….help!!

Why can she not be mine?

My best friend and I have been together for almost 10 years. I started having deep feelings for her about a year ago. There is one problem, shes 100% lesbian. She knows how I feel but she also says she loves me too except shes gay. Is there anything I can do? Or is she the one that got away?

how to break the news?

im bisexual…and i have actually had more lesbian relationships than straight. the problem is that my brother and father are extreamly religious, and are disgusted with gays and lesbians. i dont think i have the bravery to tell my dad but i really want to tell my brother, because we are really close. how do i tell him?
this is one thing he would not get over

I really want to date a guy I dated 10 years ago, problem is, he thinks I am lesbian. What should I do?

I really want to date a guy I dated 10 years ago, problem is, he thinks I am lesbian. What should I do?

I really need advice on this relationship….?

Hi could really use some advice… I’m not sure if I am bisexual or lesbian, I just know I’ve had relationships both with men and woman, but the most intense ones have been with women. Right now I got involved with a really close friend, but she’s just going to turn 17 and I’m 31. That’s my first problem, the big age difference, we don’t care, but I’m sure other people would think it’s sick or something.

I never told my family any of this, but yesterday my mom asked me if I was a lesbian, and if I had a relationship with this “friend” and I just couldn’t deny it to her face. I’m not sure how she’ll handle everything, since I’ve always been her “perfect daughter”.

Now my other problem is, I don’t live in the US, my girlfriend does, and the whole long distance thing is really hard too. People where I live are a lot more close minded than in the US. You don’t usually see girls together, and it’s definitely not socially accepted at all. Any advice would be really appreciated.
Thanks weaversscc2004 and mel. We are thinking of having her move over here when she can, but I live in a very close minded society…
Thanks broke!that was really helpful. I can´t visit once a month cause we live really far, but we do talk on the phone a lot and use a webcam. I´d love to get in touch with you…