i fell in love with this girl and we had no arguments and no fights for 8 mths. our relationship was so perfect. except her parents dont like lesbians so they tried to seperate us. recently i had a family emergency in my country. so we didnt see each other for 3 wks. when i came back to her country i only seen her for 3 days and her parents kept us apart again. becuz i was depressed i started a new relationship with a bicurious friend i knew for a year. i wanna go back to the love of my life but during our seperation she had sex with a man. i thought she was a lesbian. i always told her thats the worst thing you could do to me. i kept seeing both the girls. cuz when im with one girl i think about the other but i would neva stop loving my first girl. but i dont want to stop seeing my new exciting fling. im stuck between a rock and high waters. who should i pick? a perfectly good fling or the ex lesbian?