I’m constantly infatuated with men. I definitely appreciate their physical appearance, but my fascination usually stems from an adoration of their talent and personalities. I listen almost exclusively to male vocalists and fixate on male celebrities. I get “crushes”, so to speak.
But I don’t find them sexually attractive.
My friends are constantly telling me that I’m bisexual, but I maintain that I’m gay. I understand the idea that not everyone is completely gay or straight, but rather varying shades of gray… but I don’t consider myself bisexual.
For the simple fact that I don’t want to have sex with any of these men, no matter how fascinating I find them.
How do I justify this to my friends who seem so convinced that I’m bisexual?
a – I’m very Femme.
b – Its a pretty even mix or gay/straight friends saying it, as well as girls/guys.
c – When I say “crush”, I mean it specifically in quotes. I think of a crush as being something very adolescent and innocent without any kind of sexual implications.
and most importantly:
D – I’m NOT questioning if I’m gay. I know I’m gay. I’m only asking how I convince my friends, because this is a topic that has led to a lot of confusion (especially among my straight friends, my gay friends just seem insulted) and debate.
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