Im a lesbian and i take on the dominant role, but i dont understand why some men are so mean and insecure when it comes to me. I’m a really respectful person so i dont try to make them feel less than a man and i am not a man hater. I dont try and take their woman and i never disrespect them in any way but they will make their comments to me and sometimes it hurts my feelings but im learning how to just brush it off. I cant help it if their woman want me i do not do anything to encourage them